I feel relatively conflict secure … until I think about all the little “low stakes” conflicts I allow to pass me by because it is easier than speaking up, or because the other person has demonstrated to me they don’t have the capacity (or desire) to meet me in the conflict… so I don’t trust them enough to try.
I am releasing the withdrawal and calling in reciprocity/interdependence.
This has come at such a profound time post a lot of conflict and a lot of change (been really ridiculously en sync with all the eclipse and planetary stuff 🫠)
Thank u so much your work really continues and evolves the thread of many liberation thinkers of precious generations in such a poignant, practical and powerful way! ❤️🔥 excited for this and to journey with other people and see everyone’s reflections 🌀
im so glad the universe is always on time and the course finds you at the right moment. it is also the perfect moment for me too I have to say!!! See you in the chat then !
The timing of this is everything for me. I helped facilitate generative-ish conflict at home for the first time ever, with the help of my ancestors. I’m curious to see what will come up in the spell writing!!
Well I’m late to the party, but there’s not right or wrong here, so I guess I’m actually right on time. I’ve had many spaces where conflict feels generative, spaces where I feel I have capacity for it and the other person does not, and times where I have zero capacity myself. I think it ebbs and flows for me based on the relationship and the amount of harm. I’m excited to be here and learn more.
I’m so excited to be here and decided to take this course because I struggle with the fear of abandonment during conflict. Mostly in romantic circumstances. It has improved as I continue to grow and learn but the feeling still lingers. Sometimes, I feel myself pulling away before the other person can.
I’ve asked a few of my friends to join me on this journey so we can have something to relate to.
I’ve just gone through a series of back to back conflicts. I’m exhausted and I can’t go on like this. My body is asking me to do things differently. Thanks for this offering ❤️
I’m really excited to see how the elements can help us navigate conflict and grow in intimacy with others. I’ve been experiencing the “rush” and “heat” of conflict in my marriage, and would love to learn how to turn that into something productive rather than destructive. 🔥 Thank you for sharing your heart with us, Care.
Voy a escribir en español porque es la lengua en la que me siento más cómodo y porque ahora es muy fácil traducir y entender otros idiomas. Yo estoy aquí porque estoy atravesando un momento de reparación hacia una persona a la que hice mucho daño, el conflicto escaló, mi sistema nervioso colapsó, huí y en la huida lastime a alguien a quien amaba pero estoy aprendiendo y ahora estoy reparando aunque a veces no sé bien cómo hacerlo pero lo que se es que no quiero volver a repetir lo que ya pasó, quiero aprender a navegar el conflicto, no huir, no castigar, no colapsar. Estoy buscando las herramientas y también llevando a la práctica, encarnando lo que pienso y deseo.
Joining at 'just the right time' i.e. next level opening up in a pretty serious rupture with my kids also parent - slightest potential for repair - let the cracks allow the light in
I feel relatively conflict secure … until I think about all the little “low stakes” conflicts I allow to pass me by because it is easier than speaking up, or because the other person has demonstrated to me they don’t have the capacity (or desire) to meet me in the conflict… so I don’t trust them enough to try.
I am releasing the withdrawal and calling in reciprocity/interdependence.
This has come at such a profound time post a lot of conflict and a lot of change (been really ridiculously en sync with all the eclipse and planetary stuff 🫠)
Thank u so much your work really continues and evolves the thread of many liberation thinkers of precious generations in such a poignant, practical and powerful way! ❤️🔥 excited for this and to journey with other people and see everyone’s reflections 🌀
im so glad the universe is always on time and the course finds you at the right moment. it is also the perfect moment for me too I have to say!!! See you in the chat then !
The timing of this is everything for me. I helped facilitate generative-ish conflict at home for the first time ever, with the help of my ancestors. I’m curious to see what will come up in the spell writing!!
Beautiful offering, grateful for what you are sharing, it comes at perfect timing. Thank you ♥️
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Well I’m late to the party, but there’s not right or wrong here, so I guess I’m actually right on time. I’ve had many spaces where conflict feels generative, spaces where I feel I have capacity for it and the other person does not, and times where I have zero capacity myself. I think it ebbs and flows for me based on the relationship and the amount of harm. I’m excited to be here and learn more.
I’m so excited to be here and decided to take this course because I struggle with the fear of abandonment during conflict. Mostly in romantic circumstances. It has improved as I continue to grow and learn but the feeling still lingers. Sometimes, I feel myself pulling away before the other person can.
I’ve asked a few of my friends to join me on this journey so we can have something to relate to.
So happy you’re here Sheila ! Welcome ! say hello in the chat 💙
Your speaking voice in the video is very warm and calming! ✨
I’ve just gone through a series of back to back conflicts. I’m exhausted and I can’t go on like this. My body is asking me to do things differently. Thanks for this offering ❤️
Thank you very much for this first class. It sounds amazing aaaand also activating ehhe
Thanks for the journey that begins!
I’m really excited to see how the elements can help us navigate conflict and grow in intimacy with others. I’ve been experiencing the “rush” and “heat” of conflict in my marriage, and would love to learn how to turn that into something productive rather than destructive. 🔥 Thank you for sharing your heart with us, Care.
Voy a escribir en español porque es la lengua en la que me siento más cómodo y porque ahora es muy fácil traducir y entender otros idiomas. Yo estoy aquí porque estoy atravesando un momento de reparación hacia una persona a la que hice mucho daño, el conflicto escaló, mi sistema nervioso colapsó, huí y en la huida lastime a alguien a quien amaba pero estoy aprendiendo y ahora estoy reparando aunque a veces no sé bien cómo hacerlo pero lo que se es que no quiero volver a repetir lo que ya pasó, quiero aprender a navegar el conflicto, no huir, no castigar, no colapsar. Estoy buscando las herramientas y también llevando a la práctica, encarnando lo que pienso y deseo.
So excited for this🤍
Joining at 'just the right time' i.e. next level opening up in a pretty serious rupture with my kids also parent - slightest potential for repair - let the cracks allow the light in