So what is the apology you need to receive you never have?
That’s the most powerful question you can ask yourself to be part of repair.
Collectively, we avoid repair because we’ve built a culture where harm is met with punishment instead of radical accountability. Carceral logic teaches us that to admit wrongdoing is to invite exile, not transformation.
But on a more personal level, what I’ve often realised is that often, we fail to hold ourselves accountable because:
