Let me tell you something!
So, I’ve been dating. It’s been great. Turns out, Berlin people were really the issue!
But anygayz, that’s not why I’m writing to you.
I think I’ve reached the other side of obsession.
I’ve written before that neglect wires us for obsession. That obsession is, at its core, an avoidance strategy. We become consumed by another person because it keeps us from having to sit with ourselves: our own lives, our fears, our loneliness, the quiet tremors that visit us at night. Sometimes what we call chemistry is simply a very effective distraction.
But nobody talks about what happens when obsession no longer works. So let me!
Before I do!
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